Here at daycare, we’re all about love and not war! We spend a lot of time introducing new pups to our existing “pack” and even more time making certain everyone has a good time with all their friends. But just like any other environment, there’s always going to be a disagreement or two. One of our many responsibilities as daycare supervisors is knowing how to keep the peace between our pups. Canines give lots of signs and cues when they’re starting to feel uncomfortable with a situation, and we spend a lot of time learning what they are so we can keep daycare a fun, stress-free, positive environment. The following is a primer on dissatisfied dogs.
(Part I of this series is an intro to play and can be found here.)
A lot of dogs tend to get a bad reputation as bossy troublemakers. However, the truth is that dogs don’t actually want to have squabbles amongst each other. They prefer to resolve conflicts instead of escalating them. Mugen, the dark brown lab mix, and Remy, the corgi, are having a debate. The lighter brown lab mix, Maggie, has always been a peace keeper. She walks in between the two boisterous boys. By putting herself in the middle, she’s signaling to them, “Hey, guys. Let’s all calm down here.” You can see that Remy is already willing to walk away from the situation. Mugan gives Maggie a disappointed glance over his shoulder before walking in the other direction. Being willing to be the middle man is a great skill for a dog to have; it means that they understand the value of balance within a group and want to help keep the status quo.
Dogs have quite a few ways of politely, but firmly, telling other dogs to simmer down. Tonka, the white husky mix, is one of our long-time daycare attendees. Juneau, the flat-coated retriever, is a young newcomer. She’s very exuberant and extremely friend – common for the breed – but sometimes her zest for life is a bit overwhelming for her friends. She’s been giving Tonka endless kisses and nose bumps for several minutes now and, while Tonka has been politely turning her head away, Juneau just doesn’t seem to get the message. So Tonka does something called a muzzle grasp: gently putting her mouth around Juneau’s muzzle, she says, “We’re friends, but that’s enough.” A direct reflection of behavior seen in the wild, canines also muzzle grasp to reinforce a bond of trust and friendship. It’s a very flexible language!
Not every dog is so eager to be diplomatic, though. To our four-legged friends, daycare is an awesome place with unique experiences. While we provide plenty of toys so that everyone gets a turn, there’s always going to be someone who might not want to share! Carol, the black lab, is standing over a tug-o-war toy. Carol loves mothering younger dogs, but that means she feels that she gets to call the shots. She may look innocent enough to the average person, but take a closer look! Her head is down so that her neck is level with her spine. Her floppy ears are flat against the sides of her head, and her eyebrows are furrowed. You can see just a little of the white of her eye, and she is looking in the direction of the other dogs without looking them in the eye (this is called a hard stare). Her lips are pulled forward over her teeth, almost like she just ate something sour (also known as a C-Pucker). These are all signs of a dog who is not pleased. She is saying to her young puppy charges, “Listen, kid. Back off. I’ll play with you, but this toy is mine.” In a situation like this, staff members will act the way Maggie did: walk in-between the dogs to diffuse tension. We also take the toy away and give it to another dog. This way, Carol sees that not sharing means she loses both her friends and her toy.
Which dog do you think is the unhappy one in this picture? You might be surprised! Some dogs take play very seriously. Tuck, the fluffy black Bernese Mountain Dog/Poodle mix on the bottom, looks awfully intimidating with his teeth out. However, this is a very common playface for him! He’s not being aggressive at all. Hallie is the smaller black lab mix on top of him. They were happily tussling on the floor right up until Carol shoved her nose into the middle of the game. Hallie isn’t too impressed with this! She freezes, stiffening her legs. Her mouth is shut and her lips are pulled forward just a little. She gives Carol a hard stare and says, “WHOAH! You spooked me and it made me upset! Don’t do that again!”
One of the reasons we are constantly watching the daycare dogs is that it can often be hard to judge a situation based on seeing just a few moments of the scene. Context is incredibly important in any language, and dog language is no different! Here, Rumor the Doberman looks quite terse. We see the hard stare yet again, this time coupled with a bigger C-pucker and an almost unnoticeable wrinkling of her upper lip. She is turned towards Chevy Mae, the red and white blur in the corner, and she looks like she means business. But look a little closer. Rumor is backed up into a corner, her body curved. She is leaning ever so slightly away from Chevy Mae. That’s because a few moments prior, Chevy Mae was taunting Rumor! She trotted over to her, prancing in front of her and nosing her with an incessant need to tease and play. Rumor showed many of the signs we’ve already discussed, but when Chevy Mae blissfully ignored her, Rumor pulls out the big guns to say, “LISTEN! I mean it: buzz off!”
Dog language is complex and layered, with each glance, prance, and wiggle signifying individual words that, when used together, complete the overall sentence of the scene. So it is important to understand each signal and what they mean, but even more important to understand what they mean all together as part of a canine conversation.
Stay tuned for Part III of our dog language series: Indecision and Fear!